My youngest daughter, got on a bike at 5. After a couple pushes, she coasted off into the sunset, only to fall seconds later. She insisted we put the training wheels back on and for years we let her hobble along.
Fast forward two years (and many camping trips later), Santa brought a brand new bike for our growing girl. Last weekend, during our annual Valentine’s Day camping trip she got tired of watching her sisters ride off without her and begged us to help her. The road was rocky but she was persistent. On her second try, I told her to look at the road ahead and it will help her stay balanced. Off she went!
As I watched her ride off down the windy road, I got teary. There goes my baby… From walking to running and swimming to riding her bike, the milestones keep ticking away like the hands of a clock. I can’t seem to stop time although I’ve done my best to delay it. I hope the lesson I taught her, to focus on the road ahead, no matter the bumps in the road, will continue to guide her, even when I’m not holding on to the back of her seat.
Do I really have to let go?